This concept resonates deeply with me, especially when I reflect on one of my favorite scriptures
Philippians 4:6-7 NLT “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus”
Those first two statements in verse 6 are inextricably linked. The only way you can genuinely "not worry about anything" is if you commit to "pray about everything." Conversely, if you don't pray about everything, you're inevitably going to find yourself worrying about anything and everything.
Think about Jesus. He prayed—a lot. He didn't just model prayer; He taught His disciples how to pray. He emphasized the importance of praying privately, not for public display. Prayer isn’t a performance; it’s an intimate conversation with our Father—a sacred chance to share what’s truly on our hearts and, just as importantly, to discover what’s on His. And there are truly no limits to the things we can bring before Him in prayer.
Matthew 6:5-13 NLT [5] “When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get. [6] But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you. [7] “When you pray, don’t babble on and on as the Gentiles do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again. [8] Don’t be like them, for your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him! [9] Pray like this: Our Father in heaven, may your name be kept holy. [10] May your Kingdom come soon. May your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven. [11] Give us today the food we need, [12] and forgive us our sins, as we have forgiven those who sin against us. [13] And don’t let us yield to temptation, but rescue us from the evil one.
Most people pray reactively. When something happens that’s beyond their control, they turn it over to God. They send out a prayer distress signal, asking Him to intervene as quickly and powerfully as possible. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that! God always hears our prayers, and no situation is too big—or too small, for that matter—for Him to handle.
However, let's not underestimate the profound power of proactive prayer. This isn't about rigid rules, but about putting some thought, effort, and structure into our prayer time. It’s about being intentional.
When you carve out dedicated time each day to speak to God, your relationship with Him deepens in remarkable ways. You begin to know and understand Him better, not just intellectually, but experientially. You get a sense of His tangible power and constant presence in your life. You learn to trust Him on a deeper level. So, when emergency situations inevitably arise, you find yourself feeling less panicked and far more confident in His ability to orchestrate ultimate good from them.
It's crucial to remember that God answers our prayers, but not always with a "yes." Consider Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane. He asked that the cup of suffering be taken away from Him, that He be spared the agony of the cross
Matthew 26:36, 39, 42, 44-46 NLT[36] Then Jesus went with them to the olive grove called Gethsemane, and he said, “Sit here while I go over there to pray.”
[39] He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
[42] Then Jesus left them a second time and prayed, “My Father! If this cup cannot be taken away unless I drink it, your will be done.”
[44] So he went to pray a third time, saying the same things again. [45] Then he came to the disciples and said, “Go ahead and sleep. Have your rest. But look—the time has come. The Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. [46] Up, let’s be going. Look, my betrayer is here!”
God said no.
But when He says no, it's always because He has something better in store. Something that better aligns with His perfect will. Something that will provide a better, more profound result. We may not always fully understand His answers in the moment, but we can absolutely trust that they are for our ultimate good and His glory.
Is there something troubling you right now? Something weighing heavily on your heart or mind? Commit it to the Lord in prayer. Stop trying to carry the burden yourself. Pour your heart out to God and trust Him to guide you through it. Give prayer a chance—not as a last resort, but as your very first, most powerful response.