Are we, as Christians, more concerned with building our own platforms than building God's Kingdom? In a world obsessed with “me,” it's easy to forget the “we” of the Gospel. The Bible paints a different picture. It's a story of community, of togetherness, and of a shared mission to glorify God. From the very beginning, with the creation of Adam and Eve, God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone". We were created for fellowship, for partnership, and for mutual support.
Genesis 2:18 NIV The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
The Peril of the Persistent "Me"
Even within the context of the Church and the Kingdom of God, the "I" can subtly creep in and distort our perspective. We may think we are serving God, but our underlying motivation is often personal gain, recognition, or influence. This individualistic focus, even in religious settings, can be detrimental:
We miss the bigger picture: We lose sight of the fact that we are part of the body of Christ, a diverse and interconnected whole. We forget that the Kingdom of God is far greater than our individual contributions.
1 Corinthians 12:12-20 NIV [12] Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. [13] For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. [14] Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many. [15] Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. [16] And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. [17] If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? [18] But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. [19] If they were all one part, where would the body be? [20] As it is, there are many parts, but one body.
We become self-centered: Our focus shifts from God's glory to our own, leading to pride and a distorted view of ourselves (Romans 12:3). Even when we use religious language, our hearts may be far from God.
Romans 12:3 NIV For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.
We neglect others: We become less concerned about the needs of our brothers and sisters, and less willing to serve. We may prioritize our own ministries or projects over the well-being of the community.
Philippians 2:3-4 NIV [3] Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, [4] not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
We hinder our witness: A self-focused Christian can be a poor representation of Jesus, who came to serve and not to be served. Our individualism can undermine the unity of the Church and make the Gospel less appealing to a watching world.
Matthew 20:25-28 NIV[25] Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. [26] Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, [27] and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— [28] just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
We misunderstand our role: We may begin to believe that the success of the Kingdom depends primarily on our efforts and abilities, rather than on God's grace and the collective work of the Holy Spirit.
Genesis 2:18 NIV The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
The Peril of the Persistent "Me"
Even within the context of the Church and the Kingdom of God, the "I" can subtly creep in and distort our perspective. We may think we are serving God, but our underlying motivation is often personal gain, recognition, or influence. This individualistic focus, even in religious settings, can be detrimental:
We miss the bigger picture: We lose sight of the fact that we are part of the body of Christ, a diverse and interconnected whole. We forget that the Kingdom of God is far greater than our individual contributions.
1 Corinthians 12:12-20 NIV [12] Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. [13] For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. [14] Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many. [15] Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. [16] And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. [17] If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? [18] But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. [19] If they were all one part, where would the body be? [20] As it is, there are many parts, but one body.
We become self-centered: Our focus shifts from God's glory to our own, leading to pride and a distorted view of ourselves (Romans 12:3). Even when we use religious language, our hearts may be far from God.
Romans 12:3 NIV For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.
We neglect others: We become less concerned about the needs of our brothers and sisters, and less willing to serve. We may prioritize our own ministries or projects over the well-being of the community.
Philippians 2:3-4 NIV [3] Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, [4] not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
We hinder our witness: A self-focused Christian can be a poor representation of Jesus, who came to serve and not to be served. Our individualism can undermine the unity of the Church and make the Gospel less appealing to a watching world.
Matthew 20:25-28 NIV[25] Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. [26] Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, [27] and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— [28] just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
We misunderstand our role: We may begin to believe that the success of the Kingdom depends primarily on our efforts and abilities, rather than on God's grace and the collective work of the Holy Spirit.
The "We" and "Us" of the Gospel
The New Testament emphasizes the importance of the "we" and "us" in the Christian life:
Unity in Christ:
Galatians 3:28 NIV [28] There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
The Church as the Body of Christ:
Romans 12:3-13 NIV [3] For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. [4] For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, [5] so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. [6] We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; [7] if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; [8] if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully. [9] Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. [10] Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. [11] Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. [12] Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. [13] Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. (emphasis mine)
Bearing one another's burdens:
Galatians 6:1-5 NIV [1] Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. [2] Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. [3] If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. [4] Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, [5] for each one should carry their own load. (emphasis mine)
Living in community:
Acts 2:42-47 NIV [42] They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. [43] Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. [44] All the believers were together and had everything in common. [45] They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. [46] Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, [47] praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. (emphasis mine)
Glorifying God together:
Romans 15:5-6 NIV [5] May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, [6] so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
From “Me” to “We”: A Practical Path Forward
So, how do we intentionally shift from an individualistic mindset to a community-focused one? Here are some concrete steps:
Examine your motives: Ask yourself why you do what you do. Are you seeking personal recognition, or are you seeking to glorify God and serve others?
1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NIV [31] So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. [32] Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— [33] even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved. (emphasis mine)
Prioritize community: Make an effort to connect with other believers, to participate in church life, and to build meaningful relationships.
Serve humbly: Look for opportunities to serve others, even in small and seemingly insignificant ways.
Matthew 20:24-28 NIV [24] When the ten heard about this, they were indignant with the two brothers. [25] Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. [26] Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, [27] and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— [28] just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (emphasis mine)
Celebrate others: Rejoice in the successes of your brothers and sisters, and be quick to offer encouragement and support.
Focus on God's glory: Let your ultimate goal be to bring honor and praise to God, not to yourself.
1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NIV [31] So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
Pray for unity: Ask God to help you cultivate a spirit of unity and love within the body of Christ.
A Passionate Plea for Community
The Christian life is not a solo journey; it's a vibrant tapestry woven with the threads of community, partnership, and a shared, God-given mission. Let's actively resist the allure of self-centeredness, that subtle poison that can seep into even the most devout hearts. Let's, instead, wholeheartedly embrace the 'we' and 'us' of the Gospel, becoming a living testament to the power of unity and love. Let's commit ourselves, today, to pursue a faith that resonates with the harmony of heaven, a faith marked by relentless love for one another and an unwavering focus on the glory of God, together. May our lives be a symphony of praise, echoing the goodness and grace of our Lord!
The New Testament emphasizes the importance of the "we" and "us" in the Christian life:
Unity in Christ:
Galatians 3:28 NIV [28] There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
The Church as the Body of Christ:
Romans 12:3-13 NIV [3] For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. [4] For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, [5] so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. [6] We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; [7] if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; [8] if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully. [9] Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. [10] Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. [11] Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. [12] Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. [13] Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. (emphasis mine)
Bearing one another's burdens:
Galatians 6:1-5 NIV [1] Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. [2] Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. [3] If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. [4] Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, [5] for each one should carry their own load. (emphasis mine)
Living in community:
Acts 2:42-47 NIV [42] They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. [43] Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. [44] All the believers were together and had everything in common. [45] They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. [46] Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, [47] praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. (emphasis mine)
Glorifying God together:
Romans 15:5-6 NIV [5] May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, [6] so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
From “Me” to “We”: A Practical Path Forward
So, how do we intentionally shift from an individualistic mindset to a community-focused one? Here are some concrete steps:
Examine your motives: Ask yourself why you do what you do. Are you seeking personal recognition, or are you seeking to glorify God and serve others?
1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NIV [31] So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. [32] Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— [33] even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved. (emphasis mine)
Prioritize community: Make an effort to connect with other believers, to participate in church life, and to build meaningful relationships.
Serve humbly: Look for opportunities to serve others, even in small and seemingly insignificant ways.
Matthew 20:24-28 NIV [24] When the ten heard about this, they were indignant with the two brothers. [25] Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. [26] Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, [27] and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— [28] just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (emphasis mine)
Celebrate others: Rejoice in the successes of your brothers and sisters, and be quick to offer encouragement and support.
Focus on God's glory: Let your ultimate goal be to bring honor and praise to God, not to yourself.
1 Corinthians 10:31-33 NIV [31] So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
Pray for unity: Ask God to help you cultivate a spirit of unity and love within the body of Christ.
A Passionate Plea for Community
The Christian life is not a solo journey; it's a vibrant tapestry woven with the threads of community, partnership, and a shared, God-given mission. Let's actively resist the allure of self-centeredness, that subtle poison that can seep into even the most devout hearts. Let's, instead, wholeheartedly embrace the 'we' and 'us' of the Gospel, becoming a living testament to the power of unity and love. Let's commit ourselves, today, to pursue a faith that resonates with the harmony of heaven, a faith marked by relentless love for one another and an unwavering focus on the glory of God, together. May our lives be a symphony of praise, echoing the goodness and grace of our Lord!
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